Herb K.

Sunday Big Book 12 Step Weekly Workshop (Cancelled due to Holiday)
2023-01-01 09:00 - 10:30 (America/Los_Angeles)
JAN. 1 – cancelled due to holiday2023 Sunday Big Book
12 Step Weekly WorkshopThe Sunday workshop is open to all who are interesting in a … Spiritual Awakening!
Through a precise personal application of all Twelve Steps in the textbook Alcoholics Anonymous, attendees will experience the process for radical change in the way they think, feel and behave. Participants will identify their sources of serial suffering and chronic unhappiness. These workshops reveal resources and tools for healing and a life that flourishes. Each person has the opportunity to learn and practice skills which establish and foster a sense of well-being and joy. This 12 Step process promises enlightenment for all who embrace and incorporate this Way of Life.
Commitment
Pray each day: “Set Aside” prior knowledge and experience.
Complete the reading assignment each week.
Listen each week to the pre-recorded workshop commentary for each Step.
Write each week for personal reflection, knowledge and deeper experience.
Attend each week to ask questions, discuss assignments and share experiences.
Have an unmarked Big Book, a binder for support material, paper and a pen.
Resources
These essential resources support each individual’s precise application of the 12 Steps to their personal life:
Way of Life Document (PDF) – New for January 2023! Download this 66-page resource and place it in a binder. It provides graphics, worksheets, and commentary to support the work for each Step.
Workshop Assignments (PDF) – This document confirms the specific directions for understanding and the application of the instructions for working each Step as contained in the Big Book.
Participation Agreement (PDF) – Each participant in the weekly workshop is asked to read and consent to this document upon registration. It confirms an understanding and acknowledgement of the commitment and potential difficulties of this experience.
“Unpacking the Big Book” 2021 Recorded Series (Youtube) – Missed a workshop or looking for a supplement? This is a free tool you can use to support your recovery. Click here to access the Playlist and don’t forget to subscribe!
2020 Big Book Workshop on Soundcloud
Each weekly workshop is recorded. An edited copy is available here for those who were not able to attend the actual meeting. This is a complete set of recordings from a previous year-long workshop (52 recordings in total) to supplement this year’s teachings. Many find it helpful to listen to them: after completing the current week’s assignments, prior to and as preparation for each current workshop, or, after the workshop, to supplement the discussion at the workshop.
Herb Kaighan, Spiritual Director (Sober since 1984): Through working the 12 Steps as contained in the Big Book, Herb experienced a profound spiritual awakening. He will discuss the impact of the Process & Principles for walking this path, practicing emotional sobriety to develop emotional maturity and a practice of daily intentional consciousness.
Upcoming Events
This group meets regularly on Sundays for six months, starting in July and ending in December.
DateTitle×2023 Sunday Big Book 12 Step Workshop Registration

Thursday Big Book 12 Step Weekly Workshop
2022-12-29 16:00 - 17:30, 2022-12-22 16:00 - 17:30, 2022-12-15 16:00 - 17:30, 2022-12-08 16:00 - 17:30, 2022-12-01 16:00 - 17:30
Thursday Big Book
12 Step Weekly WorkshopThe Thursday workshop is open to all who are interesting in a … Spiritual Awakening!
Through a precise personal application of all Twelve Steps in the textbook Alcoholics Anonymous, attendees will experience the process for radical change in the way they think, feel and behave. Participants will identify their sources of serial suffering and chronic unhappiness. These workshops reveal resources and tools for healing and a life that flourishes. Each person has the opportunity to learn and practice skills which establish and foster a sense of well-being and joy. This 12 Step process promises enlightenment for all who embrace and incorporate this Way of Life.
Commitment
– Pray each day: “Set Aside” prior knowledge and experience.
– Complete the reading assignment each week.
– Listen each week to the pre-recorded workshop commentary for each Step.
– Write each week for personal reflection, knowledge and deeper experience.
– Attend each week to ask questions, discuss assignments and share experiences.
– Have an unmarked Big Book, a binder for support material, paper and a pen.
Resources
These essential resources support each individual’s precise application of the 12 Steps to their personal life:
Way of Life Document (PDF) – New for July 2022! Download this 66-page resource and place it in a binder. It provides graphics, worksheets, and commentary to support the work for each Step.
Workshop Assignments (PDF) – New for July 2022! This document confirms the specific directions for understanding and the application of the instructions for working each Step as contained in the Big Book.
Participation Agreement (PDF) – Each participant in the weekly workshop is asked to read and consent to this document upon registration. It confirms an understanding and acknowledgement of the commitment and potential difficulties of this experience.
“Unpacking the Big Book” 2021 Recorded Series (Youtube) – Missed a workshop or looking for a supplement? This is a free tool you can use to support your recovery. Click here to access the Playlist and don’t forget to subscribe!
2020 Big Book Workshop on Soundcloud
Each weekly workshop is recorded. An edited copy is available here for those who were not able to attend the actual meeting. This is a complete set of recordings from a previous year-long workshop (52 recordings in total) to supplement this year’s teachings. Many find it helpful to listen to them: after completing the current week’s assignments, prior to and as preparation for each current workshop, or, after the workshop, to supplement the discussion at the workshop.
Herb Kaighan, Spiritual Director (Sober since 1984): Through working the 12 Steps as contained in the Big Book, Herb experienced a profound spiritual awakening. He will discuss the impact of the Process & Principles for walking this path, practicing emotional sobriety to develop emotional maturity and a practice of daily intentional consciousness.
Upcoming Events
This group meets regularly on Thursdays for six months, starting in July and ending in December.
DateTitle×Thursday Big Book 12 Step Workshop Registration
By entering your information below, you will be enrolled in the 2024 Thursday Big Book Workshop. You are welcome to attend as your needs and schedule permits.
What to Expect: You will be added to the database and you will receive an email with the Zoom login and other material relevant to your life’s journey.
Registration is free. Your email will only be used for this purpose and you can unsubscribe at any time. By registering for this workshop, you agree that you have read the Participation Agreement and consent to it. You can access the Agreement by clicking on the link above.
Email (required) * First Name Last Name Select list(s) to subscribe to2024 Thursday Workshop Example: Yes, I would like to receive emails from Herb K.. (You can unsubscribe anytime) Constant Contact Use. Please leave this field blank.By submitting this form, you are consenting to receive marketing emails from: Herb K.. You can revoke your consent to receive emails at any time by using the SafeUnsubscribe® link, found at the bottom of every email. Emails are serviced by Constant Contact

Wednesday Big Book 12 Step Weekly Workshop (FA Only)
2022-12-28 13:00 - 14:30, 2022-12-21 13:00 - 14:30, 2022-12-14 13:00 - 14:30, 2022-12-07 13:00 - 14:30
Wednesday Big Book
12 Step Weekly WorkshopThe Wednesday workshop is open to all who are interesting in a … Spiritual Awakening!
Through a precise personal application of all Twelve Steps in the textbook Alcoholics Anonymous, attendees will experience the process for radical change in the way they think, feel and behave. Participants will identify their sources of serial suffering and chronic unhappiness. These workshops reveal resources and tools for healing and a life that flourishes. Each person has the opportunity to learn and practice skills which establish and foster a sense of well-being and joy. This 12 Step process promises enlightenment for all who embrace and incorporate this Way of Life.
Commitment
– Pray each day: “Set Aside” prior knowledge and experience.
– Complete the reading assignment each week.
– Listen each week to the pre-recorded workshop commentary for each Step.
– Write each week for personal reflection, knowledge and deeper experience.
– Attend each week to ask questions, discuss assignments and share experiences.
– Have an unmarked Big Book, a binder for support material, paper and a pen.
Resources
These essential resources support each individual’s precise application of the 12 Steps to their personal life:
Way of Life Document (PDF) – New for July 2022! Download this 66-page resource and place it in a binder. It provides graphics, worksheets, and commentary to support the work for each Step.
Workshop Assignments (PDF) – New for July 2022! This document confirms the specific directions for understanding and the application of the instructions for working each Step as contained in the Big Book.
Participation Agreement (PDF) – Each participant in the weekly workshop is asked to read and consent to this document upon registration. It confirms an understanding and acknowledgement of the commitment and potential difficulties of this experience.
“Unpacking the Big Book” 2021 Recorded Series (Youtube) – Missed a workshop or looking for a supplement? This is a free tool you can use to support your recovery. Click here to access the Playlist and don’t forget to subscribe!
2020 Big Book Workshop on Soundcloud
Each weekly workshop is recorded. An edited copy is available here for those who were not able to attend the actual meeting. This is a complete set of recordings from a previous year-long workshop (52 recordings in total) to supplement this year’s teachings. Many find it helpful to listen to them: after completing the current week’s assignments, prior to and as preparation for each current workshop, or, after the workshop, to supplement the discussion at the workshop.
Herb Kaighan, Spiritual Director (Sober since 1984): Through working the 12 Steps as contained in the Big Book, Herb experienced a profound spiritual awakening. He will discuss the impact of the Process & Principles for walking this path, practicing emotional sobriety to develop emotional maturity and a practice of daily intentional consciousness.
Upcoming Events
This group meets regularly on Wednesdays for six months, starting in July and ending in December.
DateTitle×Wednesday Big Book 12 Step Workshop Registration
By entering your information below, you will be enrolled in the 2024 Wednesday Big Book Workshop. You are welcome to attend as your needs and schedule permits.
What to Expect: You will be added to the database and you will receive an email with the Zoom login and other material relevant to your life’s journey.
Registration is free. Your email will only be used for this purpose and you can unsubscribe at any time. By registering for this workshop, you agree that you have read the Participation Agreement and consent to it. You can access the Agreement by clicking on the link above.
Email (required) * First Name (required) * Last Name Select list(s) to subscribe to2024 Wednesday Workshop Example: Yes, I would like to receive emails from Herb K.. (You can unsubscribe anytime) Constant Contact Use. Please leave this field blank.By submitting this form, you are consenting to receive marketing emails from: Herb K.. You can revoke your consent to receive emails at any time by using the SafeUnsubscribe® link, found at the bottom of every email. Emails are serviced by Constant Contact

Sunday Big Book 12 Step Weekly Workshop (Cancelled due to Holiday)
2022-12-25 09:00 - 10:30
Dec. 25 – Cancelled due to holiday2023 Sunday Big Book
12 Step Weekly WorkshopThe Sunday workshop is open to all who are interesting in a … Spiritual Awakening!
Through a precise personal application of all Twelve Steps in the textbook Alcoholics Anonymous, attendees will experience the process for radical change in the way they think, feel and behave. Participants will identify their sources of serial suffering and chronic unhappiness. These workshops reveal resources and tools for healing and a life that flourishes. Each person has the opportunity to learn and practice skills which establish and foster a sense of well-being and joy. This 12 Step process promises enlightenment for all who embrace and incorporate this Way of Life.
Commitment
Pray each day: “Set Aside” prior knowledge and experience.
Complete the reading assignment each week.
Listen each week to the pre-recorded workshop commentary for each Step.
Write each week for personal reflection, knowledge and deeper experience.
Attend each week to ask questions, discuss assignments and share experiences.
Have an unmarked Big Book, a binder for support material, paper and a pen.
Resources
These essential resources support each individual’s precise application of the 12 Steps to their personal life:
Way of Life Document (PDF) – New for January 2023! Download this 66-page resource and place it in a binder. It provides graphics, worksheets, and commentary to support the work for each Step.
Workshop Assignments (PDF) – This document confirms the specific directions for understanding and the application of the instructions for working each Step as contained in the Big Book.
Participation Agreement (PDF) – Each participant in the weekly workshop is asked to read and consent to this document upon registration. It confirms an understanding and acknowledgement of the commitment and potential difficulties of this experience.
“Unpacking the Big Book” 2021 Recorded Series (Youtube) – Missed a workshop or looking for a supplement? This is a free tool you can use to support your recovery. Click here to access the Playlist and don’t forget to subscribe!
2020 Big Book Workshop on Soundcloud
Each weekly workshop is recorded. An edited copy is available here for those who were not able to attend the actual meeting. This is a complete set of recordings from a previous year-long workshop (52 recordings in total) to supplement this year’s teachings. Many find it helpful to listen to them: after completing the current week’s assignments, prior to and as preparation for each current workshop, or, after the workshop, to supplement the discussion at the workshop.
Herb Kaighan, Spiritual Director (Sober since 1984): Through working the 12 Steps as contained in the Big Book, Herb experienced a profound spiritual awakening. He will discuss the impact of the Process & Principles for walking this path, practicing emotional sobriety to develop emotional maturity and a practice of daily intentional consciousness.
Upcoming Events
This group meets regularly on Sundays for six months, starting in July and ending in December.
DateTitle×2023 Sunday Big Book 12 Step Workshop Registration

Sunday Big Book 12 Step Weekly Workshop
2022-12-18 09:00 - 10:30, 2022-12-11 09:00 - 10:30, 2022-12-04 09:00 - 10:30
2023 Sunday Big Book
12 Step Weekly WorkshopThe Sunday workshop is open to all who are interesting in a … Spiritual Awakening!
Through a precise personal application of all Twelve Steps in the textbook Alcoholics Anonymous, attendees will experience the process for radical change in the way they think, feel and behave. Participants will identify their sources of serial suffering and chronic unhappiness. These workshops reveal resources and tools for healing and a life that flourishes. Each person has the opportunity to learn and practice skills which establish and foster a sense of well-being and joy. This 12 Step process promises enlightenment for all who embrace and incorporate this Way of Life.
Commitment
Pray each day: “Set Aside” prior knowledge and experience.
Complete the reading assignment each week.
Listen each week to the pre-recorded workshop commentary for each Step.
Write each week for personal reflection, knowledge and deeper experience.
Attend each week to ask questions, discuss assignments and share experiences.
Have an unmarked Big Book, a binder for support material, paper and a pen.
Resources
These essential resources support each individual’s precise application of the 12 Steps to their personal life:
Way of Life Document (PDF) – New for January 2023! Download this 66-page resource and place it in a binder. It provides graphics, worksheets, and commentary to support the work for each Step.
Workshop Assignments (PDF) – This document confirms the specific directions for understanding and the application of the instructions for working each Step as contained in the Big Book.
Participation Agreement (PDF) – Each participant in the weekly workshop is asked to read and consent to this document upon registration. It confirms an understanding and acknowledgement of the commitment and potential difficulties of this experience.
“Unpacking the Big Book” 2021 Recorded Series (Youtube) – Missed a workshop or looking for a supplement? This is a free tool you can use to support your recovery. Click here to access the Playlist and don’t forget to subscribe!
2020 Big Book Workshop on Soundcloud
Each weekly workshop is recorded. An edited copy is available here for those who were not able to attend the actual meeting. This is a complete set of recordings from a previous year-long workshop (52 recordings in total) to supplement this year’s teachings. Many find it helpful to listen to them: after completing the current week’s assignments, prior to and as preparation for each current workshop, or, after the workshop, to supplement the discussion at the workshop.
Herb Kaighan, Spiritual Director (Sober since 1984): Through working the 12 Steps as contained in the Big Book, Herb experienced a profound spiritual awakening. He will discuss the impact of the Process & Principles for walking this path, practicing emotional sobriety to develop emotional maturity and a practice of daily intentional consciousness.
Upcoming Events
This group meets regularly on Sundays for six months, starting in July and ending in December.
DateTitle×2023 Sunday Big Book 12 Step Workshop Registration

Spirituality Series: Steps 8 & 9, Final Phase of the Process of Forgiveness
2022-12-17 10:00 - 13:00
Spirituality Series:
Steps 8 & 9, Final Phase of the Process of ForgivenessThe Mary & Joseph Retreat Center is sponsoring this series of topics that address our human journey for establishing and sustaining relationships: with Reality/reality, with our self, and with others.
Freedom is the key promise of the completion of Steps 8 & 9.
Step 8: Identify ‘harms’:
1. How did you diminish them? Not what you did… but what was the impact on them! What you did that diminished the quality of their lives? Which of these areas were affected? Physical; Emotional; Mental; Financial; Spiritual.
2. What specifically can I do to balance the Justice scale? My change of behavior? My repair of damage?
Step 9: Willingness to address the damage to complete the Forgiveness Process
– How do I prepare properly?
– How do I make amends to people I can’t find?
– How do I make effective amends to people I should not contact, or who don’t want contact with me?
– How do I make amends to dead people?
– What is the “Forgiveness Process”?
Freedom is the result of rehabilitation of our relationship with Life, Ourselves & Others. Are you really willing to go to “…any length” for freedom from addiction & unmanageability? Have you completed Step 9? If not, are you willing to complete all your amends? REALLY?
This will be a practical WORK-shop. Bring your questions, prepare to confront your unwillingness and to respond to your willingness. Together we’ll share our experience and dialogue about being delivered to FREEDOM by bringing HEALING to others.
Workshop Resources
“Practicing the Here and Now: Being Intentional with Step 11” by Herb K. (Amazon)
“Twelve Steps to Spiritual Awakening: Enlightenment for Everyone” by Herb K. (Amazon)
“Spirituality Series” Recorded Workshop (Youtube)
“Path to Freedom: The Steps” Recorded Workshop (Youtube)
Herb Kaighan, Spiritual Director (Sober since 1984)Through working the 12 Steps as contained in the Big Book, Herb experienced a profound spiritual awakening. He will discuss the impact of the Process & Principles for walking this path, practicing emotional sobriety to develop emotional maturity and a practice of daily intentional consciousness.
Upcoming Events in this Series
Review the list of scheduled events below and click on the workshop you wish to attend. You will be taken to the Mary & Joseph Retreat Center website to complete registration.
DateTitle

Tuesday Big Book 12 Step Weekly Workshop (Last Meeting)
2022-12-06 19:30 - 21:00
Tuesday Big Book
12 Step Weekly WorkshopThe Tuesday workshop is open to all who are interesting in a … Spiritual Awakening!
Through a precise personal application of all Twelve Steps in the textbook Alcoholics Anonymous, attendees will experience the process for radical change in the way they think, feel and behave. Participants will identify their sources of serial suffering and chronic unhappiness. These workshops reveal resources and tools for healing and a life that flourishes. Each person has the opportunity to learn and practice skills which establish and foster a sense of well-being and joy. This 12 Step process promises enlightenment for all who embrace and incorporate this Way of Life.
Commitment
– Pray each day: “Set Aside” prior knowledge and experience.
– Complete the reading assignment each week.
– Listen each week to the pre-recorded workshop commentary for each Step.
– Write each week for personal reflection, knowledge and deeper experience.
– Attend each week to ask questions, discuss assignments and share experiences.
– Have an unmarked Big Book, a binder for support material, paper and a pen.
Resources
These essential resources support each individual’s precise application of the 12 Steps to their personal life:
Way of Life Document (PDF) – New for July 2022! Download this 66-page resource and place it in a binder. It provides graphics, worksheets, and commentary to support the work for each Step.
Workshop Assignments (PDF) – New for July 2022! This document confirms the specific directions for understanding and the application of the instructions for working each Step as contained in the Big Book.
Participation Agreement (PDF) – Each participant in the weekly workshop is asked to read and consent to this document upon registration. It confirms an understanding and acknowledgement of the commitment and potential difficulties of this experience.
“Unpacking the Big Book” 2021 Recorded Series (Youtube) – Missed a workshop or looking for a supplement? This is a free tool you can use to support your recovery. Click here to access the Playlist and don’t forget to subscribe!
2020 Big Book Workshop on Soundcloud
Each weekly workshop is recorded. An edited copy is available here for those who were not able to attend the actual meeting. This is a complete set of recordings from a previous year-long workshop (52 recordings in total) to supplement this year’s teachings. Many find it helpful to listen to them: after completing the current week’s assignments, prior to and as preparation for each current workshop, or, after the workshop, to supplement the discussion at the workshop.
Herb Kaighan, Spiritual Director (Sober since 1984): Through working the 12 Steps as contained in the Big Book, Herb experienced a profound spiritual awakening. He will discuss the impact of the Process & Principles for walking this path, practicing emotional sobriety to develop emotional maturity and a practice of daily intentional consciousness.
Upcoming Events
This group meets regularly on Tuesdays for one year, starting in January and ending in December.
DateTitle×Tuesday Big Book 12 Step Workshop Registration
By entering your information below, you will be enrolled in the 2026 Tuesday workshop group. You are welcome to attend as your needs and schedule permits.
What to Expect: You will be added to the database and you will receive an email with the Zoom login and other material relevant to your life’s journey. Registration is free. Your email will only be used for this purpose and you can unsubscribe at any time.
By registering for this workshop, you agree that you have read the Participation Agreement and consent to it. You can access the Agreement by clicking on the link above.
Email (required) * First Name Last Name Select list(s) to subscribe to2026 Tuesday Workshop Example: Yes, I would like to receive emails from Herb K.. (You can unsubscribe anytime) Constant Contact Use. Please leave this field blank.By submitting this form, you are consenting to receive marketing emails from: Herb K.. You can revoke your consent to receive emails at any time by using the SafeUnsubscribe® link, found at the bottom of every email. Emails are serviced by Constant Contact

Path to Freedom: 12 Concepts - Conclusion and Experience
2022-12-03 10:00 - 12:00
Path to Freedom:
Conclusion and ExperienceThe prophetic brilliance of Bill Wilson (his inclusive and comprehensive perspective) are fully on display when looking at the circle and triangle: a fully integrated set of operating Principles for individual development and group interaction: the practice of living.
The 12 Traditions, approved in 1950, established Principles for behavior within each group as well as between all groups. Many individuals have found these guidelines useful in their personal lives and relationships with others. Herb K. presents a monthly series on the 12 Traditions – January through June, 2022.
The 12 Concepts, adopted in 1955, are a set of guiding Principles for the operation of a nonprofit, spiritual organization. Herb K. presents a monthly series on the 12 Concepts – July through December, 2022.
Resources
Concepts Table of Contents (184KB)
Concepts Checklist (31KB)
Concepts Illustrated (3.4MB)
Concepts of Service (GSR) (88KB)
Concepts Workshop Resources (28KB)
Concepts Workshop Format (100KB)
Concepts Long & Short Form (94KB)
Traditions Workshop Assignments (242KB)
Traditions Workshop Worksheets (138KB)
Traditions Principles (98KB)
Traditions Checklist (59KB)
Traditions Illustrated (1.6MB)
Traditions Meditations (211KB)
Traditions Reading Resources (41KB)
Herb Kaighan, Spiritual Director
(Sober since 1984)
Through working the 12 Steps as contained in the Big Book, Herb experienced a profound spiritual awakening. He will discuss the impact of the Process & Principles for walking this path, practicing emotional sobriety to develop emotional maturity and a practice of daily intentional consciousness.
All Events in this Series
Below is a list of other upcoming events below in this series. Please click on the workshop you wish to attend. Please click on the workshop you wish to attend.
DateTitle

Spirituality Series: Resentments, Columns 3 & 4
2022-11-19 10:00 - 13:00
Spirituality Series:
Resentments, Columns 3 & 4The Mary & Joseph Retreat Center is sponsoring this series of topics that address our human journey for establishing and sustaining relationships: with Reality/reality, with our self, and with others.
Step Four: Identification of the Obstacles in Us to Power
– Overview of the entire process; use of the model of survival instincts – fight, flight, freeze.
– Actual application of precise instructions for Resentment analysis: Identifying false “beliefs,” our “should(s),” and “unenforceable rules.”
– Prayer process for removal of deep resentments.
– Why do we hold them…? What is benefit to us? …value for us?
– What are our operating motives (corrupt)?
– How do I misrepresent myself?
– How do I avoid responsibility?
– Taking 100% responsibility for our perceptions, feelings and our behavior.
Workshop Resources
“Practicing the Here and Now: Being Intentional with Step 11” by Herb K. (Amazon)
“Twelve Steps to Spiritual Awakening: Enlightenment for Everyone” by Herb K. (Amazon)
“Spirituality Series” Recorded Workshop (Youtube)
“Path to Freedom: The Steps” Recorded Workshop (Youtube)
Herb Kaighan, Spiritual Director (Sober since 1984)Through working the 12 Steps as contained in the Big Book, Herb experienced a profound spiritual awakening. He will discuss the impact of the Process & Principles for walking this path, practicing emotional sobriety to develop emotional maturity and a practice of daily intentional consciousness.
Upcoming Events in this Series
Review the list of scheduled events below and click on the workshop you wish to attend. You will be taken to the Mary & Joseph Retreat Center website to complete registration.
DateTitle

Path to Freedom: Concepts 10, 11, 12
2022-11-05 10:00 - 12:00
Path to Freedom:
Concepts Ten, Eleven & TwelveThe prophetic brilliance of Bill Wilson (his inclusive and comprehensive perspective) are fully on display when looking at the circle and triangle: a fully integrated set of operating Principles for individual development and group interaction: the practice of living.
The 12 Traditions, approved in 1950, established Principles for behavior within each group as well as between all groups. Many individuals have found these guidelines useful in their personal lives and relationships with others. Herb K. presents a monthly series on the 12 Traditions – January through June, 2022.
The 12 Concepts, adopted in 1955, are a set of guiding Principles for the operation of a nonprofit, spiritual organization. Herb K. presents a monthly series on the 12 Concepts – July through December, 2022.
Resources
Concepts Table of Contents (184KB)
Concepts Checklist (31KB)
Concepts Illustrated (3.4MB)
Concepts of Service (GSR) (88KB)
Concepts Workshop Resources (28KB)
Concepts Workshop Format (100KB)
Concepts Long & Short Form (94KB)
Traditions Workshop Assignments (242KB)
Traditions Workshop Worksheets (138KB)
Traditions Principles (98KB)
Traditions Checklist (59KB)
Traditions Illustrated (1.6MB)
Traditions Meditations (211KB)
Traditions Reading Resources (41KB)
Herb Kaighan, Spiritual Director
(Sober since 1984)
Through working the 12 Steps as contained in the Big Book, Herb experienced a profound spiritual awakening. He will discuss the impact of the Process & Principles for walking this path, practicing emotional sobriety to develop emotional maturity and a practice of daily intentional consciousness.
All Events in this Series
Below is a list of other upcoming events below in this series. Please click on the workshop you wish to attend. Please click on the workshop you wish to attend.
DateTitle

Spirituality Series: Living in the Light (w/Fr. Tom Weston, SJ)
2022-10-29 10:00 - 13:00
Spirituality Series:
Living in the Light with Fr. Tom Weston, SJThe Mary & Joseph Retreat Center is sponsoring this series of topics that address our human journey for establishing and sustaining relationships: with Reality/reality, with our self, and with others.
Not Cured, Daily Reprieve: A Hand‐in‐Glove Relationship
Are you tired of serial suffering?
Are you mostly “restless, irritable, and discontent”?
Are you filled with chronic irritation, anxiety, or boredom?
Are you regularly asking: “IS THIS ALL THERE IS”??
The text book of AA suggests: We have entered the world of the SPIRIT! We can grow in understanding and effectiveness! It will continue for our lifetime! It also confirms … we are NOT CURED … have a DAILY REPRIEVE from a SPIRITUAL MALADY? But when we have a … program of action … SANITY RETURNS? … fit spiritual condition … have a new way of living! We need to carry vision of God’s will … to exercise our will power = its proper use … to sense the flow of Spirit into us? Have we become God-conscious? What is Big Book talking about? What are specific suggestions for having a life that FLOURISHES ? Can I really be happy, joyous, and free? … REALLY?
We will discuss: responding to the GIFT of GRACE with willingness & action. Find the KEY to unlock the secret to the Step 9 Promises of … Freedom … Happiness. REALLY!
Guest Speaker: Fr. Tom Weston, SJ
Fr. Tom Weston, SJ has been involved with people in Twelve Step Programs since 1976. A former Director of the Jesuit Volunteer Corps and a teacher, he has degrees in counseling, education, and theology. He lectures, counsels & conducts workshops and seminars internationally. Go to innerlightproductions.net for more info.
Workshop Resources
“Practicing the Here and Now: Being Intentional with Step 11” by Herb K. (Amazon)
“Twelve Steps to Spiritual Awakening: Enlightenment for Everyone” by Herb K. (Amazon)
“Spirituality Series” Recorded Workshop (Youtube)
“Path to Freedom: The Steps” Recorded Workshop (Youtube)
Herb Kaighan, Spiritual Director (Sober since 1984)Through working the 12 Steps as contained in the Big Book, Herb experienced a profound spiritual awakening. He will discuss the impact of the Process & Principles for walking this path, practicing emotional sobriety to develop emotional maturity and a practice of daily intentional consciousness.
Upcoming Events in this Series
Review the list of scheduled events below and click on the workshop you wish to attend. You will be taken to the Mary & Joseph Retreat Center website to complete registration.
DateTitle

Emotional Sobriety and the 12 Steps
2022-10-15 09:00 - 13:00
Emotional Sobriety:
The Twelve StepsIn this four hour workshop, Dr. Berger and Herb K. will share their understanding and experience with each of the 12 Steps = on how they help us achieve and sustain emotional growth. This powerful experience will give both the long timer and the newcomer an opportunity to look at the 12 Step process from a fresh perspective. The 12 Steps produce a radical change in the way we think, feel and behave. They also create a template for continued progress in emotional health. They empower us to discover and recover our true self, to live with balance and joy and to empower us to be the determining force in our own lives.
Honestly ask yourself:
Am I experiencing serial suffering? What are the symptoms of my suffering?
What is the source of my suffering?
Do I have balance in my life?
Do I have a sense of value and purpose?
You will be invited to:
– Identify the obstacles to relationship with yourself, with others and with the “Mystery,”
– Take ownership and responsibility for your happiness, and
– Foster your emotional growth to have your life FLOURISH.
Workshop Schedule

Orientation
9:00am

Application of Principles #1 – 6
10:00am

Awareness of Principles #7 – 12
11:00am

Conclusion/Q&A
12:00pm

Resources
This library of tools will support your journey … the rite of passage to adulthood … the freedom of conscious living based on immutable principles of reality.
Emotional Sobriety Zoom Workshop recordings on Dr. Berger’s website ABPHD.COM
“12 Stupid Things That Mess Up Recovery” by Dr. Allen Berger (Book)
“12 Smart Things To Do When The Booze And Drugs Are Gone” by Dr. Allen Berger (Book)
“12 Essential Insights for Emotional Sobriety: Getting Your Recovery Unstuck” by Dr. Allen Berger (Book)
“Twelve Steps to Spiritual Awakening: Enlightenment for Everyone” by Herb K. (Book)
Allen Berger, PhD, Clinical Psychology
(Clean and sober since 1971)
Dr. Berger will discuss mental health concepts like emotional dependency, self-esteem, independence, interdependence and manifesting our true self.
Herb Kaighan, Spiritual Director
(Sober since 1984)
Through working the 12 Steps as contained in the Big Book, Herb experienced a profound spiritual awakening. He will discuss the impact of the Process & Principles for walking this path, practicing emotional sobriety to develop emotional maturity and a practice of daily intentional consciousness.
Upcoming Events in this Series
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Path to Freedom: Concepts 7, 8, 9
2022-10-01 10:00 - 12:00
Path to Freedom:
Concepts Seven, Eight & NineThe prophetic brilliance of Bill Wilson (his inclusive and comprehensive perspective) are fully on display when looking at the circle and triangle: a fully integrated set of operating Principles for individual development and group interaction: the practice of living.
The 12 Traditions, approved in 1950, established Principles for behavior within each group as well as between all groups. Many individuals have found these guidelines useful in their personal lives and relationships with others. Herb K. presents a monthly series on the 12 Traditions – January through June, 2022.
The 12 Concepts, adopted in 1955, are a set of guiding Principles for the operation of a nonprofit, spiritual organization. Herb K. presents a monthly series on the 12 Concepts – July through December, 2022.
Resources
Concepts Table of Contents (184KB)
Concepts Checklist (31KB)
Concepts Illustrated (3.4MB)
Concepts of Service (GSR) (88KB)
Concepts Workshop Resources (28KB)
Concepts Workshop Format (100KB)
Concepts Long & Short Form (94KB)
Traditions Workshop Assignments (242KB)
Traditions Workshop Worksheets (138KB)
Traditions Principles (98KB)
Traditions Checklist (59KB)
Traditions Illustrated (1.6MB)
Traditions Meditations (211KB)
Traditions Reading Resources (41KB)
Herb Kaighan, Spiritual Director
(Sober since 1984)
Through working the 12 Steps as contained in the Big Book, Herb experienced a profound spiritual awakening. He will discuss the impact of the Process & Principles for walking this path, practicing emotional sobriety to develop emotional maturity and a practice of daily intentional consciousness.
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